You’ve probably been shut down due to COVID in one way or another for about a year depending on where in the United States you live. While social isolation has decreased dramatically in recent weeks as pandemic progress continues to pick up momentum, many are still exercising caution around meeting people, particularly for sex.
That truth has led to a steep rise in interest in what’s called, “phone sex”.
Phone sex is by no means a 2020 invention. People have been practicing talking dirty to each other over the phone to simulate intimate experiences for decades.
If you’ve considered experimenting with phone sex in the past but haven’t been sure how or where to enjoy these sorts of experiences, keep reading. Below, our team breaks down what you need to know.
The How
You have a partner that’s on the road a lot or that you’re looking to punch things up with sexually even though they’re around more often than not. This has led to several conversations about phone sex that haven’t ever quite come to fruition.
If any of that sounds like what you’re going through, you’re not alone. Countless people nervously suggest innovative ways to explore their sex lives but rarely follow through.
For those of you that are committed to not letting phone sex fall by the waist-side, here are some tips to get you started and to ensure you enjoy a great experience.
Make Sure You Trust Your Partner
There’s a serious level of vulnerability you’ll need to showcase in order to have phone sex. With your partner not being around, is it possible that you’re talking to somebody other than who you’re intending to on the phone? Is it possible you’re being recorded?
A lot of things can go wrong when using telecommunications to do things that have a stigma attached to it. To keep yourself safe and to be able to let yourself go, make sure you and your partner share a ton of trust before you dive into phone sex.
Diving in before that trust is in place can make for particularly awkward and potentially dangerous experiences.
It’ll Feel Silly to Start
Talking dirty in the bedroom can be a tough nut to crack. Try doing it over the phone and you may find that it’s even harder.
What we tell phone sex novices is that they can expect to feel a little uncomfortable being sensual over the phone to start. That’s okay though! Embrace it, don’t be afraid to giggle, and keep rolling with the punches.
With practice, you’ll find that you’ll settle into a level of comfort that retains the fun aspects of feeling silly but does away with the shameful bits.
Explore Your Boundaries
Being an explorer in the bedroom is a great way to keep your relationship fresh. It might also be intimidating seeing as how being in an in-person intimate encounter and doing things that you might not like can have real consequences.
When you experiment over the phone, you have the ability to make-believe and, since you’re alone, are 100% safe. Those truths make phone sex a fabulous outlet for kicking the tires on what you may be comfortable with sexually.
And who knows, if you get comfortable talking about doing things over the phone, you may find yourself more willing to experiment the next time you have a partner in front of you.
Practice On Your Own
Still feeling intimidated by the idea of talking dirty via phone? If you are, practice on your own.
Head over to your bathroom mirror and say things to yourself that you’d feel uncomfortable saying to others. Hearing the words come out of your mouth can start to create a level of comfort with the process.
The Where
We’ve given you phone sex tips that should help get the ball rolling with experimenting with this means of intimacy. Now then, where can you enjoy a phone sex experience?
There’s no singular answer to that question. In broad strokes, two outlets tend to be the most popular.
On Your Phone With Your Partner
Your partner is far away. You want to be intimate with them. You can both pick up the phone and share a phone sex experience.
Just make sure you’re both in comfortable, private places.
On the Phone With a Professional
Don’t have a partner that you can have phone sex with? In that case, consider hopping on any one of the countless adult chat line numbers that exist.
Adult chat lines will generally bill you by the minute and will pair you off with a professional. Working with professionals can do a lot to raise your phone sex confidence as pros are adept at guiding people through the experience.
Give Phone Sex a Try
It can feel invigorating to read about different ways to take your sex life to the next level. Do you know what’s more invigorating though? Actually putting yourself out there and sampling new sexual frontiers.
If learning how to have phone sex has always been something you’ve been interested in, you now know the basics. Armed with that insight, we implore you to put your knowledge to work.
It may be that you never look at sex the same way again!
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