Olivia likes to get physical with most of her clients (Picture: @theoliviabentley/Kennedy News)
Intimacy educator Olivia Bentley (no relation to the Made in Chelsea star) uses a range of unique methods to help couples spice things up in the bedroom.
The 46-year-old’s unconventional techniques include offering emotional support, hosting one-to-three-hour sessions where she teaches saucy tips, as well as jumping into bed with clients for some hands-on education.
Olivia claims to have saved hundreds of marriages with her sex therapy, but argues it’s ‘unfair’ for women to get married and not tend to their husbands’ sexual needs.
The self-described ‘veteran’ sex worker of 15 years sometimes provides services for husbands and wives together, but also sees individual male clients – some of whom have got a ‘hall pass’ from their spouses.
In addition, the tutor also gives fitness and nutrition advice as part of the package, helping people achieve the best sex of their lives by prompting them to get in shape.
One of Olivia’s top tips to overweight men is to ‘do your sit-ups’, as obesity can restrict bloodflow and lead to erectile dysfunction.
She describes herself as a ‘veteran’ sex worker of 15 years (Picture: @theoliviabentley/Kennedy News)
Her services are proving popular too, as she now sees up to 10 people a week and rakes in $500,000 (£394,350) a year from the business.
Olivia, from Boise, Idaho, US, said: ‘I’ve saved marriages. The stuff I do is completely life-changing.
‘Couples who have sessions with me are the coolest in the world because they understand the importance of sexuality in their relationship as a part of maintaining a healthy marriage.
‘There are also couples out there who give the man a hall pass – the wives are basically outsourcing.
‘Some ladies say “I don’t always want to be involved in this but I want to know who you are, I want to approve of you and I’m going to let him come and see you”.’
Among the requests she gets, Olivia has been asked to demo sex acts for wives on their husbands, but she likes to ‘get physically involved with the majority of the people’ she sees.
Olivia also offers fitness and nutrition advice (Picture: @theoliviabentley/Kennedy News)
She believes her career in the sex industry has helped give her a deeper insight into the bedrooms of those in long-term relationships.
‘I know there are a lot of sexless relationships out there and there are a lot of unhappy men,’ said Olivia.
‘Men will come to me and they’re like “I just want to feel alive and happy because I’m not really happy in my relationship and I’ve just learned to get by.”
‘It’s really neat when couples come in, they’re actively working on it together. She’s tending to his needs, which is vital.’
According to Olivia, it’s ‘not an option’ for women to get married and then become disinterested in intimacy, something her male clients often complain of having happened.
‘It’s not fair but I see it all the time,’ she added.
‘There’s tons of that out there and then they’re not really happy. I don’t shame them if they’re going to go to a provider.’
She recently began competing in bodybuilding competitions too (Picture: @theoliviabentley/Kennedy News)
Olivia, who previously worked at the world-famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada, doesn’t have formal sex therapy qualifications but says she gleaned her knowledge from a Masters degree in education and experience in sex work.
‘People are usually nervous so I have to do my job at making them feel very comfortable and easing them into it, I’m kind of like the guide,’ said the sex-positive mum.
‘I always want to make the woman feel very confident and comfortable.
‘I’m very affectionate physically and emotionally towards the wife always. If she’s feeling very good then the mood is elevated and we have a really good time and the husband is very grateful for the experience.’
When she’s not educating couples in the bedroom, Olivia focuses on another physical passion of hers – training as a fitness influencer and competitor.
Olivia said: ‘People will pick my brain on fitness so I’m generous and during sessions I give information that I’m learning as I go.
‘I advise men to please do your sit-ups, don’t tolerate a big gut. Men who are obese and have a big gut experience more erectile dysfunction because blood flow is getting cut off…
‘When you take the reins during sex you’re working out more and it can become very cardio-driven the harder you go.
‘I advocate stretching for both men and women, yoga is great for being more limber.’
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