Manifesting Orgasms and Scheduling Sex: One Mum’s Approach for a Fulfilling Marriage

Have you tried manifesting an orgasm? (Picture: Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks)

A mum has revealed how manifesting her orgasms helped heal her marriage after she began feeling distant from her partner.

Two years ago, Cassie Brooks and her husband, Monte, felt they were ‘going through the motions’ and struggling in their relationship, which also impacted their sex life.

In an effort to revive their connection, the 39-year-old mum, who says she is ‘part of a coven’, suggested they try something new – ‘sex magick’.

The practice involves unlocking energy within the body and using this to manifest a desired result; fake it ’til you make it with a twist, if you will.

The accounting clerk, who makes a conscious effort to put in the time for sex with Monte, 47, swears by the method.

‘Monte and I work opposite schedules and are both busy, and we have a spunky and active eight-year-old who keeps us on our toes,’ says Cassie, who lives in Tennessee, US.

‘We have to be intentional when we truly want to connect with each other, and sometimes it’s easy to push sex aside because we’re tired.

‘I love my husband, but sometimes he has the emotional range or spiritual depth of a door knob.’

Aside from manifesting and tuning into her mind and body to channel her climax, Cassie also sets the scene for her partner to boost his senses.

Cassie explains: ‘One of the specific times we used sex magick was when we felt a major distance between us. We had been going through motions of our life and marriage for a while but didn’t truly connect.

‘We actually schedule time for sex 1677850071 but leave plenty of room for impromptu moments, too.

Cassie manifests orgasms and schedules sex with her husband, Monte, a nurse (Picture: Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks)

‘Monte is aware I’ve “worked my magick,” but he doesn’t always know what that entails.

‘If he’s struggling with something, I make sure to use the right scent, put on the heels or lingerie piece that will quickly be discarded to help set the tone.

‘Beyond that, it’s not really a conscious act for him as much as it is participatory. It still counts though, since his energy is added to the magick, even if it’s not intentional.’

Cassie says she is also part of a coven (Picture: Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks)

Cassie was first inspired by sex magick after researching the benefits.

As part of the ‘ritual’, the couple take time to relish each other’s bodies by complimenting each other and touching the parts that make their energy light up to ‘release it into the universe’.

They will occasionally talk about the sex they want to have before they move into the bedroom, with Cassie instructing her other half on the positions that help her better manifest the climax.

Describing how sex magick works, she added: ‘Sex magick can be whatever you want it to be, much like the act itself can.

‘You can do it by yourself or with your partner and still get the manifestations you desire.

‘That part is always about intention. The rest is up to you.

‘There are some immediate effects because you are charged and aware of what you just did, but as the afterglow of an orgasm surfaces, so does the energy created and released into the universe.

‘Sometimes it takes time for magick to work, but that’s part of the whole thing – trusting the process.’

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