Life usually follows the same routine every day. Relationships, whether it is with your girlfriend or wife, can become boring when everything is in a familiar pattern. You might start to wonder if this is what the rest of your life is going to be like.
Living in a monotonous relationship is not exciting, and you must find a way to keep that special person, and yourself, looking forward to the joy of a pleasant surprise as often as you can.
We lead busy lives in modern society, and not spending quality time with each other or finding new things to do together can easily contribute to a lack of appreciation for each other. You will stop growing together.
Wait! You can avoid all that!
Before you get concerned, we have looked into how to put the color back into your lives. An important small step is to surprise your girlfriend or wife often. Here is where the little things can count a lot. Start right now, and put a hand-picked flower on her pillow, or goodnight chocolate on her side of the bed. Do this often.
Here are some more ideas especially for you:
1. Romantic dates
Plan a romantic date. This can be anytime and anywhere. Maybe a simple candlelit dinner at home or in a romantic place. It can be an afternoon walk in the park, just the two of you, any small thing that breaks the daily routine.
Think of new and exciting things to do together like going to an art gallery or planning a picnic. Something special that is exclusively for the two of you can put the spark back into any relationship. Think up some fun things and discuss them with your partner to decide what to do first. Or ask her out just like you did when you were courting her!
2. Little Surprises
To surprise your love, think of the little things you can do. Handpick flowers and put them in a vase, this is sometimes more thoughtful than buying a bunch of flowers. Run a relaxing bubble bath for her. Write a love note and serve her breakfast in bed. Write her a love note and put it on her car window before she leaves for work. Rent an old movie that you both enjoyed watching. Give her a handmade book of personal complimentary vouchers from you for a foot massage, a neck massage, a week of dishwashing, or any other task that she usually has to do in your household. There are so many little surprises that can make big differences.
3. Compliment each other
Do you remember when last you gave your partner a compliment? If you have to think about it, that means it was much too long ago. Make a point of it each and every day to compliment your partner, on her looks, on her dress, on her smile. Nothing is more uplifting in your life than knowing you are appreciated by the person you are sharing your life with.
Compliment her on the delicious smell of a dinner she prepared, or on the smell of her hair. Even a small compliment is enough to make a person feel good and appreciated by the one they love.
4. A Special gift
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5. Make her dreams come true
If you know the love of your life would love to go to Paris, but it is too expensive, come up with an alternative plan. Look for a French Restaurant in your area and take her to dinner to enjoy delectable French Cuisine. Or set up a table with checkered cloth and all the little trimmings of a French Café in your back yard or a park. Buy a bottle of wine, some cheeses, and a baguette or two. Play soft French music in the background. Dress as a French waiter, call her “Mademoiselle” and treat her to a make-belief evening in Paris.
6. Plan a trip for two
If you want to get reinspired in love and in life, go on a trip. Traveling with your partner is the best method to break up the monotony and routine in your life and relationship. As soon as you get out of your comfort zone and ordinary day-to-day routine, you might find yourself doing things you never imagined. You can learn and experience new things together. Quietly plan for a spontaneous trip, and amaze the love of your life with a romantic weekend for two.
Book your trip and visit a city you’d like to see, relax in the spa, appreciate nature, go to a beautiful beach, and take a long evening stroll along the coast.
There are so many things that can keep your love alive and growing if you work at it. The joy of love will stay with you if you make sure you explore as many of them as you can. The more you give love, the more you will receive. Just try!
