When life gets too busy and hectic, the first thing that can go out the window for a lot of couples is sex.
Does this sound like you?
If there is less passion between your sheets than you would like, or you are worried about how much sex you and your partner are having, then you are not alone. The majority of couples worry about this from time to time.
But don’t worry. Our tips on ways to improve your sex life will make you say see ya to boring sex life, and hello to a new found love of making love.
Ways to Improve Your Sex Life
We have all been there before when everything and anything seems to get in the way of a night of passionate love-making.
Whether it’s the kids driving you mad, work getting you down, or just another episode of your favorite Netflix show to binge, sometimes sex just seems to fizzle out.
So how to make your sex life better?
In order to improve your sex life, you need to make it a priority. When you and your partner are stuck in a rut, then small changes such as a shake-up of your routine, introducing sex toys (more people than you think own them), and taking your sex life out of the bedroom, can all make a huge difference, leading to a better sex life.
If you want to reignite your fire, here are some ways to improve your sex life and get your groove back!
1. Enjoy Making Out
When couples first start dating, they are all about kissing. Making out everywhere and anywhere is hot, sexy, and exciting. But, as a relationship develops and progresses, kissing becomes less sexy and more platonic.
Forget those cute little pecks on the lips or cheeks. Instead, take things back and enjoy a hot and heavy make-out session.
Start by giving your partner a long and passionate kiss when you say goodbye to each other in the morning. When you are both fully dressed, and on your way to work, a lingering kiss will start those fires burning and will leave you wanting more.
Perfect for thinking about all day, turning you on, and making you excited to see each other at the end of the day.
2. Show Them What You Like
Say adios to boring sex life by trying something completely new for both you and your partner.
If you aren’t being touched the way you know you like being touched, then take charge. No one knows your body better than you, and no one knows how to turn you on better than you. So let your partner know.
The next time you want to get down, take their hand, and show them how to make you purr. This is, after all, educational!
3. Start Sexting
Sexting is such a fun and exciting way to express yourself. A lot of the time, sexting stops as a relationship goes on. Well, we say, bring back sexting!
Just think how excited and turned on you will get if you send a naughty sex message to your partner, completely out of the blue. Do this at a time when you won’t be together for the majority of the day.
Message them saying what you want to do to them and what you want them to do to you, and wait with anticipation for how they will respond. We guarantee that as soon as you see each other, you will want to practice what you preached all night long.
4. Try CBD
If you want to enjoy more intense orgasms and increase your sensitivity…down there…then why not try applying CBD topical cream?
CBD increases blood flow, which can intensify sexual pleasure and give you out-of-this-world orgasms. It also helps to elevate your mood and relax you, making sex even more enjoyable. Sounds good to us!
You can also enjoy giving your partner an arousing massage using CBD oil to turn them on and relax their bodies and minds.
Find out more about how to use CBD to recharge your sex life.
5. Get Your Toys Out
Sex toys, such as dildos, are a common purchase for women and men. With so many options available, it can be hard (pun intended) to choose the right one for you and your partner. So why not include them in the purchase?
Go online and peruse the choices. Read reviews and enjoy getting excited together.
Once your toy has arrived, get to know it together. Try your toy out on each other, and turn each other on in a new and exciting way.
6. Watch Porn Together
Although a lot of people watch porn in private, we believe that watching it together is a great way to improve your sex life.
Watching porn can make us feel naughty, as well as building up our own sexual desire and tension. Why would you want to waste that alone, when you could enjoy it with your partner?
Get comfy, choose a video together, and try not to touch each other. Let yourselves become as aroused as possible before you take things to the next level. If you are more of a literary type, then invest in some erotic literature and take turns reading it to each other.
7. Lose Your Senses
You can really heighten sexual tension and build anticipation by taking away your partner’s senses. Temporarily, of course!
Slip a blindfold over your partner’s eyes and pop some earphones in their ears, with sexy music on repeat. Now enjoy teasing them by touching them anywhere you want. Experiment with things like feathers, hot wax, and even ice cubes.
By taking away their sight and hearing, the mystery and surprise of what you are doing will turn them on even more, creating an inevitable climax that will not disappoint. Don’t forget to switch over when things get too hot for you!
Enjoy a Better Sex Life Together
Now you know some of our favorite ways to improve your sex life, you and your partner can have fun trying out each and every step. Just make sure you come up for air once in a while.
We hope you enjoyed this article. For more tips and advice on relationships, health, and lifestyle, make sure you check out some of our other posts.